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skudiklier's Reviews (647)
Minor: Medical content
Graphic: Alcoholism, Biphobia, Body shaming, Cancer, Domestic abuse, Homophobia, Misogyny, Racism, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Grief, Car accident, Lesbophobia, Outing, Alcohol, Sexual harassment
Moderate: Cursing, Death, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicide, Terminal illness, Violence, Xenophobia, Blood, Vomit, Abortion, Pregnancy, Classism
Minor: Addiction, Drug use, Incest, Pedophilia, Police brutality, Death of parent, War
I really enjoyed this book, and I feel like it balanced the feelings of grief and new love so well. I was a bit worried in the beginning I wouldn't be able to handle all of the stuff about her ex-husband's death, but I got through it okay. I think this book is beautiful and messy and I really want to believe in it, honestly. It made me feel so many things.
I'm not sure I'd recommend this to everyone; I feel like I'd want to give a caveat or two if I did. But who knows, maybe I'll think about it. The writing was beautiful of course and there was nothing wrong with it that isn't the case for almost any romance.
Thank you to Atria Books and Netgalley for the chance to read and review this ARC.
Graphic: Biphobia, Cursing, Death, Infidelity, Sexual content, Grief, Car accident
Moderate: Homophobia, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, Blood, Death of parent, Alcohol
Minor: Ableism, Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Incest
my favorite line was "we sing to night / with aching moans"
Minor: Sexual content
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Blood, Suicide attempt, Alcohol
Moderate: Alcoholism, Biphobia, Death, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Sexism, Violence, Xenophobia, Vomit, Grief, Car accident, Pregnancy, Lesbophobia, Gaslighting, Sexual harassment
Minor: Cancer, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Medical content, Abortion, War
Graphic: Violence, Kidnapping
Moderate: Ableism, Child abuse, Torture, Abandonment, Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Death, Gun violence
This book was hit-or-miss for me; some sections I loved, some sections left me screaming, but other sections had me feeling bored or confused. A lot of it went over my head and I found it hard to keep interest in some sections.
Overall I'm glad I read the book of course, but I'm a bit disappointed that I don't think I can recommend this to most people in the future. I do still look forward to reading her future work though, and I'm glad so many other people had an easier time with this book.
Graphic: Sexual content, Transphobia
Moderate: Alcoholism, Cancer, Terminal illness, Suicide attempt
Minor: Pedophilia, Rape, Torture
I'm finding it hard to summarize key takeaways; perhaps this is because I listened to the audiobook and may have in some parts focused on it less than I would have preferred, or maybe this is because of the book itself somehow. But I read this for a book club so I'm excited to talk about it with others so they can refresh my mind on the parts I really want to remember.
My favorite passage was:
When the language of advertising and personal branding enjoins you to “be yourself," what it really means is “be more yourself," where “yourself” is a consistent and recognizable pattern of habits, desires, and drives that can be more easily advertised to and appropriated, like units of capital. In fact, I don’t know what a personal brand is other than a reliable, unchanging pattern of snap judgments: “I like this” and “I don’t like this," with little room for ambiguity or contradiction.
Minor: Toxic relationship