As my first read of 2021, this book gave me a lot of hope and insight. I'm a young queer woman, and despite knowing the progress in legislation that has occurred in my lifetime I admit that I didn't have very extensive knowledge of the political process behind them. This has changed as I've grown and worked to be a better advocate, but I find myself constantly learning more about the advocacy work that occurred when I was younger and less aware. Sarah McBride's book taught me so much and showed me both how far we've come and how much further we must go.

Her stories about Andy were particularly moving. Andy's story so closely mirrored my grandfather's that I had to step away on several occasions. What really resonated with me was Andy's ongoing legacy. He has made a lasting and permanent imprint on the world, and his work continues to shape our country.

This book was written at the beginning of Tr*mp's presidency. Reading it at the end gives a new perspective, and in many ways reinvigorates my hope for what January 20th will be the start of. Knowing that Sarah McBride herself is now a state senator further feeds that hope. This book is a wonderful read as we begin the next era of our fight for equality.

A good read - Sarah McBride is a delight to get to know. If anything, I wanted MORE. I do recommend also checking out her interview with Teri Gross on NPR's Fresh Air podcast as a supplement. Teri asked a few focused questions surrounding gender norms before/after McBride identifying as a trans woman that I thought were very relevant and not necessarily covered in this book.

To me, most of the book felt rather "polite,” if that's the right word? I'm not sure she always found the balance in tone between memoir and challenges/joys of coming out as a trans woman and a book about equality and activism. She didn't quite lean too far into either direction, which meant some areas felt "glossed over." I tended to get a bit bogged down in the details surrounding the politics and bill legislation sections that felt like I was in a lecture.

But where McBride shines here is her writing about late husband, who was also transgender, Andy Cray. Just the scene of their wedding day is heartbreaking - laughter, tears, joy, and sorrow. The intimate scenes between her & Andy, and her family and friends, her fears/rising confidence as a public figure and activist were the most compelling parts of the book for me.

You will cheer for Sarah McBride, now Senator! Delaware and citizens are beyond lucky to have her as a delegate.