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While there are definitely limitations, they are largely expected given the time period. You would be hard pressed to find another male politician coming close to speaking about solidarity with women in such a way in most places in the 80s.
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Sexism, Colonisation
Graphic: Infidelity, Misogyny, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Transphobia, Medical content, Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Hate crime, Rape, Police brutality
Graphic: Child abuse, Homophobia, Misogyny, Racism, Rape, Torture
Moderate: Incest, Religious bigotry, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury
Graphic: Death, Drug use, Infidelity, Panic attacks/disorders, Transphobia, Grief, Death of parent, Alcohol
Moderate: Toxic relationship
Overall, this is a good introduction to the Neurodiversity Paradigm and neuroqueering. I do think one would want to read more introductory things to disability in general before reading this if you are totally unfamiliar with discourses on disability, but if you have a basic understanding, this is a must-read.
Moderate: Ableism
Graphic: Death, Blood, War
Graphic: Death, Gore, Racism, Blood, Medical content, Toxic friendship, Abandonment
Moderate: Ableism, Chronic illness, Drug use, Medical content, War
I'm kind of mad it took me so long to get to this, but once I got started, I read it in a little over a day. A nice start to my reading year!
Graphic: Alcoholism, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Alcohol
Moderate: Biphobia, Homophobia, Misogyny, Racism, Abandonment
The biggest thing I got out of this is that *we* as a community can be the solution to a lot of things. As cheesy as it may sound, speaking out can do so much in interpersonal situations. And homophobia at large has justified abuses and lessened the likelihood that people will speak out. A lot of what she said makes me very excited to read Conflict is Not Abuse, which she published quite a while later.
I do think it could have been more developed in some ways and it really would have benefited from research backing her points. The question of course would be, were there people out there doing psychology or sociology research on familial homophobia? It was probably slim, so I understand her decision to lean on her own experiences here.
I also take issue with some of her proposed solutions. She mentions things like bringing in court-ordered therapy and relying on the state to diffuse certain situations. I don't think that is viable (and I'm not even sure whether or not the author would either at this point). There is also a lot that would have benefited a lot by an analysis of race in all of this as well. These, like the bit around gay marriage, I think says more about the state of discourse then (which is valuable to understand I think).
Over all, it was a neat read. Not her best, but it meditates on important topics, many of which remain relevant, and definitely tells us something about its time.
Graphic: Homophobia, Misogyny