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Moderate: Misogyny, Racism, Transphobia, Blood, Sexual harassment
Graphic: Death, Misogyny, Transphobia, Blood, Police brutality
Moderate: Fatphobia, Racism, Sexual assault
Graphic: Death, Homophobia, Misogyny, Blood, Police brutality
Moderate: Fatphobia, Racism, Transphobia
Graphic: Body horror, Death, Violence, Fire/Fire injury, War
Moderate: Bullying
Minor: Death of parent
We watch as Noah makes friends and grows, even while still remembering and greiving. There is so much about finding your people, understanding and being understood - but also the struggle of communicating and opening up enough to let people understand you.
So much about this book was incredible and touching, it's hard to put it into words. It takes some unexpected turns and was healing and cathartic in a way that only queer middle grade/YA lit can be.
Graphic: Bullying, Deadnaming, Grief
Moderate: Death, Transphobia, Outing
Minor: Car accident
If I wanted to nitpick, I could find things that weren't believable about parts of this, but I was so engrossed with the story and characters that I didn't want to - any of it didn't break my reading experience (and certainly any gripes that I could search for to have are well within the norm for this genre anyways). I stayed up way too late reading this because I was so invested. I'm excited to read more from this author!
Graphic: Ableism, Biphobia, Homophobia, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders
Moderate: Vomit
There is a lot in here obviously about masculinity at large but even more compelling to me was how it all (masculinity as well as the experience of boxing) tied into the author's life. As McBee is unpacking masculinity and his relationship to it, he's also analyzing relationships past and present, working though grief, and processing his childhood abuse. This was really well put together and had a lot of great insight.
This book does focus on a limited scope of masculinity, but the author clearly states his position socially (as white and cis-passing) and acknowledges how it's a different experience from others. He doesn't go far into detail on a lot of these points nor does he dig far into the class differences that he describes in the boxing gyms. This is a memoir - it makes sense that the scope would be limited, but it would have been interesting to see a bit more about this especially since he did pull from academic sources at other points in the book (and I enjoyed the discussion that he had in those sections).
Overall, I had a good time with this. It was well-written, interesting, and insightful. It grapples with a lot of big questions about masculinity, identity, and personal history in a really compelling way.
Graphic: Cancer, Violence, Death of parent
Moderate: Child abuse, Sexual assault
Graphic: Death, Blood
Moderate: Misogyny, Racism
Minor: Cancer, Abortion
Graphic: Ableism, Medical content, Medical trauma
Graphic: Death, Genocide, Racism
Moderate: Medical content, War
Minor: Vomit