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One of my absolute favorite graphic novels of all time. Beautiful illustrations, wonderful storytelling, and it never fails to make me chuckle. The fractured fairy tale nature of the world only adds to the atmosphere.

This book was interesting, though I do feel a little conflicted about it. I liked how the story was told from both the point of view of the mother and the son. Having the mother's thoughts and feelings was interesting, especially since that's not something you typically get from a trans memoir. However, though I think she's now supportive of her son and has always been a loving parent, I do not agree with her constant insistence that entities that supported and assisted her son during his transitions (the school, medical offices, therapy, etc.) should have included her more in the conversation and thought process of what was happening with her son's transition, especially because she had shown such negative reactions to his decision. I can only image how challenging it must be from a parent's point of view and she has every right to have her own thoughts and feelings about what is happening to her child, but once he is legally an adult, she was not owed any kind of information or input. That's just a part of children growing up.

I'm glad things worked out between them, overall, and they were able to put together this book. Parents who are struggling with their child coming out as trans might find it comforting to know they are not alone in their questions and fears. On that note, I do agree with Mary in that there shouldn't be a black and white "if you're not with us you're against us" right off the bat. Transition is a process for both the individual and the family, and thoughts and feelings can change over time. Demonizing someone just because they having misgivings is never helpful.

Beautiful illusrations, but such a sad story.

Great fantasy adventure story for a younger audience. Reminds me a little of the Rangers Apprentice series.

A little slow to start, but good message for kids - you don't always have to fit into a group; do your own thing.

One of my new favorite trans-related books. I enjoyed how Mia wove general bits of transgender information within her own personal story. The writing was clear and easy to read - I tended to feel more like I was reading a novel than a work of non-fiction.

So true for a book lover!