This Feast of a Life is a warm, slice-of-life novel that gently follows two characters, Auden and Valerie, as they navigate their evolving relationships, with themselves, their families, each other, and food. The story explores themes of identity and healing: Auden is coming out as non-binary and beginning to explore their place on the asexual spectrum, while Valerie is grappling with grief and working to reconnect with her father who is grieving just as much.

The pacing is quiet and meandering, which isn't what I prefer with contemporary YA stories like this one. While I didn’t feel an urgent need to keep turning the pages, the slower tempo allows space for emotional and slow-burn growth. Watching Auden become more confident in their identity and seeing Valerie find strength through vulnerability were both touching and rewarding arcs.

One aspect I loved but that I wish were talked about more is the book’s handling of asexuality. The tension between Auden, who is realizing they don’t feel desire for sex or kissing (at the moment), and Valerie, who leans toward casual flings due to her knowing what it means to lose someone she loved, is a compelling dynamic. However, I felt this conflict was resolved too quickly and could have used more depth.
As much as I adored both characters, I found myself wondering whether their relationship could truly endure...