Super informative and accessible. This was written a while ago but the behavior described is still happening today. Reading this made me seriously look at my past relationships and also notice problematic behavior in the other men in my life. It helped me realize that nothing that happened to me was my fault. It was sad to read about how only a handful of men completely change their behavior. There are so hard truths in this book. I recommend this to everyone who had an abusive person in their life.