"I'm Afraid of Men" by the same author is wonderful and I fully recommend reading that one. Unfortunately, this book doesn't have the same emotional depth or the same unique, boundary pushing concepts as the other book. I felt like the book was a bit too unorganized and jumped between thoughts or didn't transition into the next topic smoothly. I love the other book, so I'm not gonna write her off and will hopefully find another book of hers that i like.