To say my confusion and experiences as a bisexual person (especially one that has minimal game with women) was accurately represented by the author is an understatement. Between the white cis-gender privilege, the experiences as a self-proclaimed slut, a history of sexual assault, and an overwhelming feeling of "not queer enough", I found myself relating to Jen from beginning to end in many ways. This book is more than the bisexual journey, it's a discovery of self and the understanding that "self" is ever-evolving.