The overall message of the book is great! Extend grace, step outside your comfort zone, etc. etc. However, I think this is written from an extremely privileged point of view. We are currently in one of the most divisive climates and I don't think I should extend grace to those who don't want basic human rights for everyone, or for those actively trying to start a war! This was my first Brown book, I have a couple on my list to read. I hope they don't all come off in this way.