I have so many thoughts about this emotional memoir. First, at how aware Jennette McCurdy is. From being blinded by her mother’s abuse for all of her formative years to writing her raw and eye opening story is just incredible. I’m not sure most people realize how their childhood has affected their lives quite like Jennette does. I was really happy to hear about her authentic relationship with therapy.

I also feel a deep sadness when thinking about enjoying shows like iCarly and Victorious. Not that enjoying them was a problem but thinking about people my own age struggling while trying to make us all laugh is heartbreaking. And then to have that show reboot…Jennette obviously made the right decision and I hope she is happy with her choice.

The conversation around narcissistic and abusive parents feels like it is coming to a surface more and more. I think this book could help a lot of young people realize childhood trauma and gives a realist view at how to survive it.