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Ask Again, Yes by Mary Beth Keane
5.0

OOOF!! Mary Beth Keane has very nearly stolen all of my words for her superbly written novel and I don't know how to do it justice, but I'll try:

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TL;DR- what are you waiting for, read the book not my review!

To summarize (no spoilers): Cop Francis Gleeson moves out of the city to start a family with his wife, Lena, after being inspired by his short-term partner Brian, who mentioned the idyllic town of Gillam, NY and his own hopes to move out there soon with his pregnant fiancée. The years roll on, the Gleesons move out of the city, and have 3 daughters in quick succession. Sometime in between those births Lena meets her new neighbor Anne and her husband (surprise!) Francis' old friend Brian. Francis has a bad feeling about Anne and tries to keep his wife away from Brian's, but left alone all day with the babies, Lena can't help but reach out to and try to bond with the aloof, pregnant Anne only to get pushback again and again. Despite the Gleesons' youngest daughter Kate being just a few months younger than the Stanhope's son, Peter, and the two kids' tight-knit friendship throughout grade school, the parents refuse to befriend or even like each other.

And then the night that changes everything, a few months after Anne had a breakdown at the Food King, now at the end of Kate & Peter's 8th grade year, Anne spirals out of control. Peter had snuck out to meet with Kate and they're caught coming back inside. Lena is furious but Anne outdoes her, picking a fight with Brian over her hatred for Kate (and the Gleesons). Peter sneaks back next door to Kate's house to use their phone and call the police, but good Samaritan Francis goes over himself to check on Anne who has Brian's service weapon ready, and fires.

The subsequent 30 years follow the aftermath for the individuals of both families and the vitriol that bubbles beneath the surface and affects their decisions even as they're moving on and away from that night. Rare is it to see such real humans portrayed in fiction as they were here dealing with so much of what so many of us shy away from discussing in our day-to-day. For anyone who knows someone with mental illness or addiction (or for someone who may have one or both)- this book with likely tear you up as much as it did me. Keane's stunning prose is like a whole other character here, dipping in and out of focus on Lena, or Francis, or Kate, or Peter, or Anne, following them closely as they feel joy or mess up or grieve again and again forcing me to emote as they do, it's a roller coaster I'll revisit for the rest of my life.