“Success pales in comparison to healing.”

 

Gut wrenching. Raw. Brutally honest. 

 

With vulnerability and an unimaginable well of strength, Viola Davis holds nothing back as she recounts the trauma she experienced early in life.  Bullying, abuse, racism, extreme poverty.   At times, it felt like a weight too heavy for any one person.  

 

And yet Davis proved resolute on breaking deep seated generational patterns and moving beyond the scars.  But to do so meant she had to first find herself.  

 

Radical honesty.  That’s how Davis refers to this unflinching look into her soul.  She leaves nothing out, at times seeming too trusting, too visible.   

 

Exposed in a way few of us dare to, not just the lows but also the humiliations… peeing her pants well beyond what is generally deemed acceptable… Viola claimed it all.  She gave it meaning.  And she overcame.  

 

There is a rawness in her voice as she courageously reveals this transformation… from learning who she is to finding peace within.  

 

On a set years ago, Will Smith asked Viola, “Who are you?”  That question stumped her then.  Now, after much soul searching and therapy, she knows exactly who she is and is unapologetic about it.  

 

And yet, if this book is only seen as the story of Viola Davis, the larger point is lost.  This story needs readers, not because of who she is but because her lessons are applicable to all.

 

🎧 I listened to the audiobook, which is narrated by Davis.  This book is formidable in any format, but hearing her voice recount her story was intense and powerful and perfect.