This was such a sweet, swoon-worthy book! I'm so proud that it exists! Many "romance" novels get kink representation wrong, and actually parrot bad, abusive relationship advice to the audience. But THIS book was wise and responsible with its representation. Jon and Cooper are caring, attentive, careful, respectful... I could go on XD. I really really REALLY liked the representation in this book.

I liked the subplot (secondary theme?) too about not stereotyping gay people or queer culture. I loved everything Jon had to say about confronting offensive behavior with firm boundaries and kind instruction, and being true to himself by being kind even when others are not. It wasn't his responsibility to educate someone ignorant, or to endure derision, but he made the choice to be better than the things that hurt him, and to put forward the kind of warmth he wants to see in the world. Jon may have that cliche "Sleigh all day *Z-snap*" vibe, but he's a wonderfully nuanced character, and I'm so happy his message is out there, dear readers.

Now credit where credit is due XD. But this book was not without its eyeroll moments. The Cinderella concept was cute, but the whole setup had me playing Romance Novel Bingo: Car dies on a snowy road; Hottie brings Stranded back to a lovely log cabin; Mismatched lovers bond over skating and cocoa, yada yada yada. And maybe it's a little bit preachy of me, but I found the CONSTANT Scooby Doo references infantilizing, which I don't think was the kink the author was going for. Innocent, merry, full of wonder, maybe. But not a literal child, despite the fact that Jon's previous relationship was with a "Daddy" XD. I think the book could have done without those Scooby Doo boxers. Gave me flashbacks to The Mister (thank you for ruining Sponge Bob, E.L. James). Just SOME moments that made me aware, "Oh, this is a book, I've seen this before..." which took me out of the moment.

Full disclosure if you couldn't tell from the tags: This IS an explicit book, there are very detailed sex scenes. If you're not into that, this might not be the meet-cute for you. BUT I hesitate to throw this aside as "just" an erotic novel. I think it's very thoughtful, romantic, emotional, has a strong message... Jon and Cooper aren't flat archetypes, they feel like real people. There's nothing vapid about this book, it's a smart, heartfelt look at two people who have been hurt learning to heal and bringing out the best in each other. So, if you ARE into THAT, please don't let the eroticism deter you from a great romance.

Merry Christmas, Jon and Cooper!!! Thanks for making my holiday merry and bright!