Finding Me gave me not only insight into this amazing woman, but also into the world. It also validating a lot of feelings I have as a black woman. I love how she spoke about poverty, racism, trauma, domestic abuse, and sex abuse. All so relevant; she got me in my feelings. And the receipts she gives about Hollywood are eye opening. I thoroughly enjoyed this memoir. And I highly suggest listening to the audio book. You hear the passion in her truth. Black women, even dark ones, are beautiful. Black men need to recognize. Check out my Youtube for more discussion.