A memoir I wish everyone would read. I personally got so much out of this book. It made me cry 3 times by the time I got to page 46. (Dear Uncle Joe, you totally made me cry. Also looking at you Pres. Obama.) And I cried several more times before it ended. I had heard Sarah speak on NPR and so I knew that she would marry Andy and that she would lose him.. I was completely prepared for that. But it still made me cry again. This documents some amazing trans history and anyone who is or thinks they are an ally should read it.