I didn’t know anything about Sarah McBride, her life or her history, before reading this book.

I was heartbroken to read of the struggles trans people in America (and all over the world) face on a daily basis. Things that I never even have to think about and take for granted as a cisgender person, like going to the bathroom, becomes a dangerous (and potentially even life threatening) scenario for a trans person - especially if not protected by the law. I am astounded that these laws did not already exist; it is equally upsetting to see that the progress made towards trans equality under Obama was later largely undone under Trump.

It was so heartbreaking to read of her internal struggles and identity as a trans woman. Amazing that her family were so supportive. But even more amazing to read of the love story that blossomed between herself and Andy. I was in total shock and disbelief to read of his diagnosis, decline and death. He was my age when he died, which perhaps made it all the more shocking.

This book had the right balance, in my opinion, of personal life and political/work life. It highlighted the importance of her work even more so than if it had just been focused on politics.

As mentioned, I didn’t know anything about Sarah McBride, her life or her history, before reading this book. But now I’ve read this I am totally inspired by the bravery and humility of this amazing woman. Under all of the loss and setbacks and abuse, there is a constant message of hope in the pages of this book. Especially when you read the foreword from the now-president Joe Biden.

Keep fighting the good fight Sarah