DRY. so DRY. the first little bit really had me set up for some bars but the whole thing repeated itself like 17 times, every chapter made the exact same point in 8 different ways before moving on. this was a literal marathon to get through.

i can never bring myself to just DNF a book when i paid whole ass money for the damn thing, and i can't leave it for too long before forgetting and having to start over. so i finished it (reluctantly).

can't believe that she has a whole little extra sequel type of book too, i can't see people loving this like they do. for me, it was giving very much white feminism and white people problems, not to say that sexuality isn't a legitimate struggle , but the depictions just didn't do it for me.