Closer to a 3.5. I think I didn't particularly like the love interest as a person. We keep getting told that he's not actually an asshole jock but he also never really.... has to learn any real lesson, things just kind of work out. The result was that I really almost hoped they didn't get together. Overall, still a very sweet and thoughtful book that has a lot to say about grief, but there were times when multiple characters didn't really face consequences for their actions and that bothered me.