I was nervous when I started this, not knowing what to expect and fearful that it would lead me to reflect on my own Asian identity in ways I am not ready to confront. However, I absolutely loved this book. I learned so much about myself, my understanding of America, and how I want to, or rather do not want to, participate in a world that is rampant with racism. Lee beautiful connects her own life and experiences with what she knows and has learned at an African American and Asian American scholar and professor.