This was great! It was nice to read after "White Fragility". Here, you get someone who is living it, telling you their experience while dropping facts and statistics. It's a great mix of informative and personal. Adding a lived experience made it a little more difficult to digest because you're also processing her experiences and the emotions that were there. It's just as important but I had to slow down when reading it. Ms. Oluo is a great writer. Her writing reminds me of a friend just talking, which works for this material.