This book was incredibly good, especially as an audiobook. It was narrated mainly by the author, but with a full cast and sound effects that really brought this to life. The conversations that Jacob shares are important for us to hear from people (especially women) of color. I'm half-Southeast Asian, and some of these conversations made me feel so seen. Others helped me gain understanding of moments that I will never have to experience as someone even half white. 

I've never read a memoir formatted this way, but I know that because of this book I absolutely will find one again. It allowed you to feel her feelings instead of just hear her process through them. I already know I"m going to tell everyone I know about this book because Jacob shares her story so well.