For a story about falling in love, that obsessive type of love, it's entirely relatable. The narrator is a writer and I often wondered if this novel was based on something that actually happened (lot of meta references to the book itself and editors and opinions about what she is writing), but then I would think--it's not important, and yes, this actually happens all the time, really. To everyone. And while so much resonated with me (to include the technology and social media namechecks, including Goodreads...but for once were not corny but totally necessary to this sort of contemporary story), there were some new things I came to understand from this lesbian love story. And it reminded me of how damn hard heartbreak can be.