This account of the authors experience is told with great care and excellent writing. I really enjoyed the format shifts to show the interactions online and through text. Speaking up about abuse of power and the lack of accountability these abusers face is so important, and showing the nuance of a victims feelings towards this person was impactful. You don't have to be a horrible person to do something horrible, and loving parts of that person and what happened does not invalidate the trauma of the experience. I saw myself in this and I hope the author is doing well and healing. 5 stars