There are two books I've read that I can truly and honestly say changed me. They changed the way I think and behave. The first one is He's Just Not That Into You which I read at a really pivotal point between high school and college. The second is Gifts of Imperfection, which I read after finishing my second year of teaching and right after getting married. I have always considered myself a perfectionist and then wondered why I have never been satisfied or happy with myself, despite working myself to death. I have so many favorite quotes from this book but one of the best for me is that 'exhaustion is not a status symbol.' Also, I have learned to be courageous about my feelings. I'm not weak just because I feel things so strongly, and hiding those feelings from people doesn't make me strong. It just makes me feel alone. We are all connected. I am so grateful for this book and I will probably read it every year.