This book was a bit of slog for me to read and took awhile, but it was also important and informative. And yes, a bit rage inducing in some parts. Some of the anecdotes! There are really men who worry what will be thought of them if they are "caught" doing laundry??? GTFO.
"There's very little in human behavior that's innate. Most of what we do is shaped by our conscious and unconscious experience. Calling gendered division of labor 'innate' is a convenient way of maintaining the power structure, period."
"To remain at peace in a system we feel powerless to change, we swallow justifications that support our ongoing servitude."