I found this book very helpful. The message of self care and compassion was hugely important. I really appreciated her making the clear statement: having a clean house means nothing about your worth and value as a person. A clean house doesn't mean you're virtuous and a messy house doesn't mean that you're worthless. It just means that you're experiencing obstacles and a hard time.

Really important message for anyone struggling with chronic illness or mental health issues.

I like the re-thinking of chores as care tasks. Things you're doing to make your spaces serve you better. You are not there to serve your spaces, they should be supporting you.

And honestly, the chapter on laundry and some of those tips on dishes... might just be life changing for me.