I wanted to like this more. I’m just kind of tired and disappointed at reading yet another queers in their 30s-40s that is nothing at all like my own experiences. I never did the party and obsess over sex thing. I’m not judging anyone who did, but it’s just no something I can relate to. Demi-sexual introvert problems maybe?

There’s definitely an aspect of my privilege hitting home here since I didn’t have any of the problems that these people did. But it also feels kind of isolating to never see people like me.

I need more nerdy DND queers I think.