My rating is not based on the personal story told in the book, as everyone deals with grief in their own, but more so on the overall structure and pacing. I did not really connect with this book, but mainly I realized that I am not someone who enjoys reading descriptions of food. Others have said this and I agree that this feels like a book written for her own healing than for an audience. There is obviously nothing wrong with that and this is highly beloved book for a reason, but again I just found myself a little lost while reading this. 

I can ultimately see the importance of the book and how it has and continues to impacts others. I do think that if you are someone who is sensitive to difficult mother daughter relationships this one might be more of a tough read. I hope that Michelle Zauner and reader who have faced similar stories can find/have found closure and peace.