Thank you @berkleyromance for a copy of If You Ask Me. I am not so sure how I feel about this book. 

Here’s what I liked about it:
- Violet’s advice column was a hoot. I enjoyed having each chapter start with her advice 
- Dez was a total cinnamon roll and was what Violet needed 


Here’s what I didn’t like:
- How quickly Violet got over Sam. Her growth seemed a bit to quick for me 
- Violet’s “friends” were not that nice to hear and she forgave them so quickly 
- I felt that Ashleigh had zero consequence with what she did to Violet

Overall, it was a fun read and it dealt with a lot of heavy topics like infertility and cheating.