There were so many things I needed in this book. The part she discussed about gossiping hit with me the most. I am also reading about that in All About Love by Bell Hooks. I agree, I do not need to be in relationships with folks where the primary objective is discussing the downfall of others. That’s is not love and it’s not okay. A constant reminder I have to tell myself. I did this a lot when I was teenager. Sometimes I’m allured by it. Reality TV doesn’t help. I need reduce how much reality TV I watch as well.