picked this up because of tejas hullur's docu-series on youtube. thomas seemed very knowledgeable so of course i wanted to read his book but i quickly realized i was not the target demographic. i'm not a man or in despair because i don't have a partner but i was under the assumption that there would still be some insight i could take away but honestly, the thought of pushing through a book that didn't have someone like me in mind just didn't sound fun.