2019: I love a good non-fic about the power of the independent woman, but there was absolutely nothing new in this book. Every single thing that Schaffer references, I had read/seen/heard before: the concept of “my person” from Grey’s Anatomy, the podcast Call Your Girlfriend, Galentine’s Day from Parks & Rec, the TEDTalk about female friendships, Lena Dunham’s Lenny Letter, Bridesmaids/Ghostbusters/Ocean’s 8