I've always loved a good advice column, and reading this book felt like a much more personally relevant version of all the drama that child Britt sucked up from Dear Abby and Ann Landers. While the advice isn't always groundbreaking--stop feeling bad about your exes being friends on Instagram by making yourself stop stalking them on Instagram? you don't say!--it was almost always validating. It's always comforting that your problems are not yours alone, and that plenty of other queer women are overthinking their ways through the same old stuff.