I can't comfortably rate this book in light of the accounts of abuse co-author Franklin Veaux inflicted upon numerous former partners. Some of the information seems good. Some of it seems like it could easily be weaponized against people and used to avoid accountability for bad behavior... and as Franklin's example shows, it has been. I get a generally positive impression of Eve Rickert from her blog and her writing about the problems with More Than Two (including that horrid "long dark night of the soul" passage), and I wish I could hand her my copy and ask her to highlight the parts that she wrote and still endorses. It was just hard to read 400+ pages of "trust your partner" from a guy who has proven himself to be utterly untrustworthy.