This is a good book for some. However it presented everything as binary - male female. It said continually that everyone feels sexual attraction even after a very short into on asexuality. It used transsexual a term that is not typically used anymore. Also, the political climate has changed so much that telling gay students to go to their administrators and teachers at school because the law is on their side may be harmful (and I question if it ever was truly safe advice.) Still a lot of good information for specific people.