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A review by ambershelf
The Death of Vivek Oji by Akwaeke Emezi

5.0

When Vivek starts experiencing disorienting blackouts, he finds solace in friendships with the daughters of the Nigerwives. Nonetheless, his closest confidant and cousin, Osita, struggles to understand Vivek's crisis. As his disconnection between self and surroundings escalates, Vivek's life is brutally cut short. Can his friends and family find the courage to peel back the layers behind his death?

VIVEK OJI s a poignant and heart-wrenching novel that explores the complexities of identity, family, and grief. Set in Nigeria, the story follows the life and untimely death of Vivek, a young person struggling to come to terms with their gender and sexuality.

This novel is so powerful because it sheds light on the painful reality of slowly dying because you're not seen. We often think of death as a one-and-done thing, but for Vivek, the lack of acceptance and understanding from those closest to him leads to a slow deterioration of his spirit. It's a painful and heartbreaking process that is all too common for those trying to find their true selves.

VIVEK OJI also explores the theme of family and how it can both provide comfort and cause harm. Vivek's relationship with his parents is particularly tragic as they fail to understand and accept him for who he is. It's a painful reminder of how difficult it can be for those who don't fit into societal norms and how even those supposed to love and support us unconditionally can sometimes fail us.

VIVEK OJI is a beautifully written and incredibly moving novel that tackles important themes with grace and sensitivity. It's a must-read for anyone who wants to better understand the struggles faced by those who don't fit into traditional gender and sexuality norms. However, it's important to note that this book deals with sensitive and potentially triggering topics, so please check the trigger warnings before reading and take care of yourself