this was our #alltheradreads book club pick for september since i had loved the guncle and heard early rave reviews about this one, but i sadly didn't love most of it 😢 from the jump, it was hard for me that one of the main characters had the same name as my toxic ex (authors! don't make your men have j names!!!). the friend group at the core of this whole story also was hard for me because they genuinely didn't seem to really like each other? i genuinely didn't like any of them until the last 5o pages or so... it just seemed to drag on and feel pretty lackluster until the very, very end. the end did tug on my heartstrings and get me choked up, which almost made me give it another star, but truly, this was just a very, very okay read for me.