I am an Iliza Shlesinger fan. I enjoy her personality and her comedy. I've watched all of her Netflix comedy specials. Her humour amplifies her spot-on observations and insights of the modern-day woman. She's blunt. She does voices and impressions. She gets excited when she talks.

I enjoyed this book on audio and it was like listening to one of her stand-up shows. She was intriguing and laugh out loud funny. As women, we are known for our sometimes irrational way of thinking. Our minds are complicated thought webs. I know I'm prone to over-thinking, over-worrying, and over-complicating. Iliza recognizes those common behaviours in women and she seeks to explain them with real-life examples and observations. However, her book does focus mostly on single women and the dating world. I found this a bit hard to relate to since I've been with my boyfriend for over four years. But the essence of truth is still there and I could understand her points well enough. She talks a lot about girl power, voicing how and why we need to love ourselves first and not let others (mostly men) get inside our heads.