this is not a bad book, it is just not for me. 
Listening to the audiobook is a bit like listening to a friend rant about their past experiences, except that this author is clearly from a very different walk of life than I am, and would probably not ever speak of such things to someone like me. As such, it was quite insightful, a look into someone else's experiences. at some points it just felt a bit uncomfortable, to me personally.