Okay I love how the writer(s) continually make it ***not about you***. You don't need to defend or explain your actions, just listen and be open to feedback. I felt the first half was kind of redundant and that it was speaking to my experience of being sensitive as a gender studies major. But there was a lot of information to take in about just listening and being an ally, not refuting things people of color already know are true. Be open to feedback, be open to conversation, be open to being a better advocate, and make no assumptions about someone's experience. I ended up liking this quite a bit.